Parenting Tips: Is it right or wrong to scold children on their birthday? Let's know the reasons behind it..

‘Birthday’ is a very special day for any person. So when adults are so crazy about it, then imagine how much the young children must be waiting for it? Children want to be in the air on this special day. On this day, they consider themselves very special and also expect everyone to treat them, especially on their birthday. This is a special, emotional, and memorable day for the child. In such a situation, scolding them is generally not considered appropriate, unless there is a very serious situation, let us know what are the reasons for this.

Why should one not scold on a birthday?

1. It can have an emotional impact:
The child expects to feel loved, appreciated, and special for himself on that day. Scolding can make him sad, embarrassed, or angry. So avoid scolding on this day.

2. It can be remembered for years:
The child's mind remembers everything about that day. If he gets scolded, then in the future he can also hate birthdays, which will not be a good experience for the child.

3. Effect on positive behavior:

If the child is scared or upset, then his positive thinking and confidence can also be affected, which will not be good for the child.

What if the child makes a mistake?

1. Explain calmly instead of scolding directly.

2. Make the child feel that you dislike his behavior, but not him.

3. If necessary, talk about the behavior the next day, so that the birthday remains good.

What is the better way?

1. Adopt the method of love and respect to teach the child on his birthday.

2. Praise him for good behaviour, so that he tries to improve himself.

So you can make your child's birthday special by adopting these methods.

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